What would it be like if you had the life that you want, in every way? What would you like to do, be, and have -- a year from today?
It could take less time, of course. I am suggesting that you think about it far enough in the future, so that you can let your imagination soar.
Most people know a lot about what they don't want, and what doesn't work in their lives. The important question is -- what do you want? What do you really, really want?
If you don't know the answer to that question, it's like trying to make an airline reservation, and telling the airlines where you DON'T want to go -- or getting into a cab in NYC, and saying "I don't want to go to Central Park, 57th Street, or the West Side. That still leaves a few other choices!
Getting clear about what you want is one of the best ways to begin actually creating it.
One way to get that clarity is to do a process that I call "A Year from Today." You can also so the same process to get clear about what you want in five years, or ten. That allows your mind to envision all the things that you want, deep inside -- so that you can bring those things into reality.
Here are some important questions to ask yourself:
Are you truly excited about your life?
Are you full of energy, or just barely making it through the day?
Are you happy about your body, and your health?
Would you like your relationships to be better?
Is your life full of love and joy and laughter?
Do you feel good all through the day, for no particular reason?
What did you dream about doing when you were a child? Are you doing those things? Or have you left your dreams behind?
Are you living your life as an adventure -- or as a To Do list?
Do you make your decisions based on what you want, or what you feel you "should" do, and "can afford"?
Do you go to sleep at night with a smile on your face, feeling at peace with yourself, and the world?
When you get up in the morning, are you full of excitment about the day ahead?
What would you like to give back? Would it be in the form of money, or time?
What one thing, if you changed it, would make the greatest impact on your life?
Where would you like to be living?
How much money do want to have in the bank?
What kind of car would you like to drive?
What kind of vacations would you like to take?
Just knowing the answers to these questions is the first step towards creating them. The coaching that I do allows people to access those answers, and take the action steps that will make them happen.
Take a moment and think about it. Close your eyes and really think about it. Let your imagination run wild.
What would you like to have, do, or be, a year from today?
If you want to start creating that, then send me an email. I offer a free coaching consultation, so that we can explore things a bit. There is no pressure, no strings. We will talk about some of the things that what you want, some of the things that are in your way, and some ways that you you can achieve your goals, starting today.
